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Need to change out the Christmas mat on the front porch (not to mention take down the interior decorations). A bit distracted with some deadlines + a general malaise this past week.

This afternoon I headed back to the dermatologist for some additional work on my moles. Two of the three that were taken out last time came back atypical (one moderate + one severe) and needed additional margins removed around the initial spot. While we were there (Chris came along to have some of his questions answered and see the process) she decided to remove three more on my back as well.

According to the American Cancer Society, "Although most moles never turn into a melanoma, some do. Researchers have found some DNA changes that transform benign nevus (mole) cells into melanoma cells. But it is still not known exactly why some moles become cancerous or why having many moles or atypical (dysplastic) moles increases your risk of developing melanoma."

Basically I am all about having them removed if they look the least bit suspicious. Especially after having one come back as melanoma in-situ (on the surface of my skin) in August. A back full of scars sounds pretty good to me.

Another thing that sounds good to me? Living for today and not worrying about what comes next.

Another gentle reminder: make an appointment to get your own skin checked.

Completely enjoying reading all your words for 2008. I will compile one big list and post it here next week.

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  1. cheryl says…
    01/02/2008

    I'm off to my Oncologist today to view the
    results of my yearly SCANS. Three years Cancer Free (so far) and I feel the same way you do...live for today.
    I had Breast Cancer and from the day of my
    diagnosis I realized that there are some things in this life that are simply a challenge. I hope that your positive attitude will prevail and that you'll hear all good news. Prayers and Positive thoughts to you from me.
    My Mother had Melanoma and the margins
    were quite extensive on the back of her left
    arm. The scar is from her shoulder to her
    elbow. The Grandkids call it her Catepillar.
    It all depends upon your point of view!
    Love,
    Cheryl

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  2. Helene says…
    01/02/2008

    Best wishes, hoping everythng is going to be OK, my prayers are for you, my word for 2008 is sevral in fact "let go, relax"
    Love, Helen

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  3. LateBlossom says…
    01/02/2008

    Hey, Ali, I took your word idea and ran with it. I asked my girlfriends via email to join me in picking a word, and every few months, we'll all check in (again, via email since they are scattered over the country) and tell how we're living our word. In just 24 hours, 9 have already jumped on board!
    Thanks for the great idea, and I hear you on the moles. Who cares about scars when your health may be at risk? I've had quite a few things removed from my skin over the years (all okay, but you don't know til they're biopsied!), and the scars fade quickly.

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  4. Chris says…
    01/03/2008

    Are you going to do a calendar again this year
    I LOVED the one last year and hubby is bugging me cuz it is a new year and no calendar yet, I just want to see if you were going to do another one.

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  5. michelle says…
    01/03/2008

    So glad everything came back o.k. and don't worry about the mat. Mine is still out too!

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  6. sue says…
    01/03/2008

    Thanks for the reminder to not put off my physical any longer. Take care of YOU and try to not stress about deadlines and/or decorations coming down.
    Sue

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  7. kaylea says…
    01/03/2008

    Ali
    Saying a prayer for you, and hoping that 2008 is a good year for you.
    My word - Simplicity; simplify...simple.
    I need to learn this in my entire life, not just in my scrapping life.
    BTW...I went until February before taking Christmas down one year....technically, we're still in the 12 days of Christmas until Sunday, so you are doing "alright" right now.
    Spend time with Simon and Chris, get some hugs and rest. The other "stuff" will happen in due time.

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  8. Kathy Fritz says…
    01/03/2008

    Ali:
    Hopefully you will see my comment.
    I just wanted to say thanks for posting that about your moles a while back.
    It spurred me on to get a skin cancer screening, which I did two weeks ago.
    Thankfully, there were no suspicious moles. Thanks for letting us know that we should really have this done. I wish you all the best for good health.
    Kathy

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  9. Grace Palazzolo says…
    01/03/2008

    Been there! Argh...Last year a small 1 removed from the front of my leg then I go get another melanoma removed was going to be tiny and wound up going deeper and wider. Luckily the plastic surgeon did it. Then a few off my back and the day before Christmas Eve I go for routine visit and bam lets check this other one out on your back! We have to have them taken off whatever it takes I am with you a fashion model I will never be so take them off as long as we are healthy and ok. Hope all goes well (Sure it will) Hugs Grace

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  10. Elisa says…
    01/03/2008

    Happy New Year, Ali!
    Thanks for the reminder. I will be making an appointment this week. I had one mole checked quite a while back. I was told it was nothing to be concerned about, but I want it out regardless. Hope all goes well with you. I will be thinking of you.
    On a lighter note, I think I have narrowed my word down to SAVOUR. Every moment.
    Have a lovely day!

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  11. Danielle says…
    01/03/2008

    Thanks Ali for sharing. I had moles removed from my back last summer as well. Mine came back precancerous so I had to go back as well. I now need more removed-I agree with you, I'd rather have scars! It's good to be reminded of the simple things we can do to take care of ourselves. Best Wishes and Happy New Year!

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  12. Molly says…
    01/03/2008

    We can't see our own backsides ... sometimes that's a posative (ha) but I hadn't thought of the skin-care aspect. I hope this is simply a routine maintenance matter for you and nothing more. Also, noticed the sole image on your board is the twirly skirt. Way to keep that goal front and center. I'm getting myself an inspiration board ... pronto. Be well, happy new year. - Molly

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  13. Cyndi Hoehn says…
    01/03/2008

    I have a large mole on my upper chest that has been there since birth (I've always called it my birthmark). It grew with both of my pregnancies. I had it looked at, but the doctor didn't see any problem with it.
    Maybe I should see a dermatologist???? I also have about 5 on my back that could be checked out. Thanks for sharing this information! I will continue to pray for you, Ali . . .

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  14. Mary Rogers says…
    01/03/2008

    it will all be good. I just know it!

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  15. Stacy says…
    01/03/2008

    Thinking of you Ali - it's so great to see that you are really assertive when it comes to these kinds of things. So many times we are on top of it for our kids and forget that we should be taking care of our bodies too. Loving the new book, I finished it and now want to go back and read the other two over again:) Thanks for the continual inspiration:)
    Stacy (Alberta, Canada)

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  16. Tna says…
    01/03/2008

    good to know that you are on top of things...not putting things off...will be praying for you and your family, hopefully, you all recovered from being sick (over the holidays)...
    you take care...greetings to you and your family, from the philippines... :)

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  17. heather says…
    01/03/2008

    good reminder, ali! a family friend put off getting her moles checked, and ended up dying of melanoma. it was very sad, especially since it's so easy to have a doctor check out moles. i, too, have a back full of scars - better that than the alternative!

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  18. Beth says…
    01/03/2008

    Ali...thanks for the mole reminder. It's so important ! I'm a very "moley" person and so I go every year for my check. So far so good, but I'm with you as far as having them removed !!
    On another note, my word for 2008 is "SEE"...as in the little things that I usually miss. It hopefully will also make me go a little slower in life....stopping to really SEE what's around me.

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  19. Nicole Drewniak says…
    01/03/2008

    I have experience with mole removal as well. Hang in there! We are all sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.

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  20. Terri says…
    01/03/2008

    Thank you so much for sharing this. It helps those of us going through similar wake up calls to pay attention to our bodies. Us moms take care of everyone else but tend to let ourselves go..... no more. FAITH is my word for 2008. Happy new year everyone!

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  21. Jillian says…
    01/03/2008

    I made a layout using my word,you can see it here.
    http://jillybeans-jillian.blogspot.com/

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  22. Valerie White says…
    01/03/2008

    Ali...my husband had melanoma 4 years ago, 6 months after my daughter was born. It was such a scare for us and one Dr. would not do surgery to remove the cancerous portion because he said his ear would look "deformed"...somehow he thought a deformed ear was worse than the alternative...we found a new Dr. at University of Washington and he has been cancer free since that date! I am sure praying for you and your family.

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  23. jenn says…
    01/03/2008

    Hoping everything goes well and keeping you in my prayers...

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  24. Nicole says…
    01/03/2008

    Good luck Ali, will be thinking of you. My mother had a melanoma years ago -- it was tough, but treatable. Keep watching and you will be on top of it if it does come.

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  25. Nicole says…
    01/03/2008

    Good luck Ali, will be thinking of you. My mother had a melanoma years ago -- it was tough, but treatable. Keep watching and you will be on top of it if it does come.

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