The Gift of Being Seen
© 2009 she saw things : jen downer
There is a certain vulnerability that goes along with letting someone into your home to be a witness to your existence.
This past weekend we were blessed with an opportunity to be seen. We welcomed someone new into our home to document us: the subtleties, the connections, the support, the silliness, the four of us.
© 2009 she saw things : jen downer
I first met Jen Downer a few years back through some random online
connections. We had dinner together in Portland and talked about life and creating and kids and special needs and photography. We talked about having her take photos of our family at
some point in the future. Fast forward a couple years and the addition
of a new family member seemed like a really good time to be seen.
To be honest, my first thought about having someone take our photos was this: we take so many photos already; we capture each other as we go about our daily routines; Chris and I are quick to grab the camera before moments pass by - why do we need someone else to take more?
Those first two photos are the reason why.
There is really something amazing about having someone else come into your home with a camera in hand who is willing to casually interact, blend in, and document us as we are. Jen captured things that we just can't do on our own, with a sensitivity to the dynamics of our family that was truly appreciated.
© 2009 she saw things : jen downer (butterfly mobile from Royal Buffet)
When she emailed these first few images to me yesterday my immediate response was that these images were my heart.
© 2009 she saw things : jen downer
Jen and Simon hit it off from the start. I had prepped him this past week that my friend was going to be coming over to take photos of our family. She even got to witness his full production/reading/acting of Green Eggs & Ham. He got to hold her camera and take a few shots.
© 2009 she saw things : jen downer
What a gift.
Thank you Jen, for seeing us.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to tell some new stories.
I can't wait to see the rest of the photos.
Beautiful!!!!!! Looooove the perspective of the first few! What treasures these will be!!
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How wonderful - love them
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very beautiful pictures. thanks for sharing them!
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How wonderful to have someone else take photos of you and the family. These look quite special so far. It will be interesting to see what she sees in your family from a different perspective.
I wish I had a Jen to come in my home and document us. I'm not even in pictures...
Enjoy yours.
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Gorgeous photos Ali! Scott and I will be back in the States in July. Maybe we can figure out a way to see my new little cousin!
xoxo
Heather
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What a stunning idea, especially love the one of the three of you in black and white. It tells a story all on it's own:)
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Thank you for sharing! I don't think a bad photo of your family can be taken!!
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Simply fabulous. Nearly breathtaking shots. Very well done.
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Fantastic!!!
I see Simon is still wearing "longs"!
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These are stunning, Ali. What a beautiful thing to do for your family!
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oh these are amazing! what a wonderful addition to the daily documentation. i've got to keep learning and practicing.
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Simply beautiful. What a blsessing...can't wait to see more!
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Love these moments. Love them.
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BE AU TI FULL pics, i can soooo imagine you to be happy with these. Thanks for sharing them with us!
Hedwig
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Priceless captures!
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awesome. priceless.
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What beautiful photos by a very talented lady.
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What a treasure these are! That photo of Anna is amazing. Love that smile.
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wow! that's all I can say right now. What beautiful shots and a beautiful family :)
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So wonderful. Thanks for letting us into your life everyday.
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Ali, these photos are absolutely amazing! It's so nice to see the four of you together. I love the first pic. Can't wait to see how you frame/scrap it. Thanks for sharing.
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oh, Ali.
just perfect.
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amazing, powerful pictures. love it!
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those are absolutely perfect.
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Oh my word these are stunning! The first picture is so so beautiful! treasures.
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