Yes, We Have A Dog And Her Name Is Lily

In a post a few days back I mentioned something about letting the dog out or feeding the dog.

More than one person in the comments said, "You guys have a dog?"

Why yes, we do.

For those of you who haven't had the pleasure, say hello to Lily. She's nine (just a bit older than Simon) and she's been with us since she was 6 weeks old.

Here she is with our second black lab, Wyatt, and Simon in 2003:

And here she is in 2004:

Lily is the reason we will always have female dogs from now on. She's kind and gentle and loyal and just gets a tad-bit excited when someone comes to visit.

My Dad had a black lab growing up: Mac The Knife.

I grew up with a black Lab - Mac The Knife Jr.

Labs have always been a part of my life.

Lily is the third black lab to live with Chris and me.

A couple years after Chris and I were married we brought our first black Lab pup home: Eddie. Eddie was killed in an accident before he was two. It was a terribly sad, heartbreaking experience.

After Eddie, we knew we wanted another dog. We found Wyatt online and drove to Northern California to pick him up. Wyatt had more of a "person" personality than any of other dogs. Seriously. He was four or five when picked him up and he lived to be about nine. He got to live out the last few years of his life at the beach with my parents.

Lily came to live with us right around the time that Wyatt did - so for a number of years we had two dogs. Which was interesting in our small living quarters with a new baby.

Lily is awesome. She's really all you could want in a dog.

Once a year Lily goes bird hunting with my Dad in eastern Oregon.

This year, before heading to the other side of the state, Lily went to Grandma and Grandpa camp for some conditioning work. She's getting up there in years and needs a bit of physical training to get her in shape for the rigors of hunting. When she goes to Grandpa and Grandma camp she goes crabbing in the boat with my Dad. He throws tennis balls for her over and over again. They go out exploring in the sand dunes.

Needless to say, when she sees my parents pull up to our house she gets really excited and I think she probably wants to go home with them.

When they get over to the east side of the state it's all business.

Some years there are other dogs along for the adventure.

She totally loves it and she's great at retrieving the birds.

After a long day of hunting out in the crazy weather she usually gets a nice warm bath and then gets to sleep with my Dad on the bed.

Around here, Lily is my daily companion. Most of the time you can find her here with my in my office or she follows me around the house as I do this and that.

Neither of the kids have an extra-special bond with her. It's more of a co-existence. Simon's gone through periods where he wanted to cuddle with her (and she's happy with that for sure) but it hasn't been an ongoing thing.

As I was looking for photos with Lily in them I had to laugh because we have lots of photos where part of Lily is in the photo. Photos like this:

And this one where she's in one of her favorite spots under the table (in our old house):

Most of the time she's hanging out waiting for a snack:

Here she is on the move (that's Wyatt in the foreground) back in 2004 or 2005:

She's definitely a people dog. She wants to hang out and she wants to stay close to home (both Eddie and Wyatt were always interested in wandering). She barks really loud to let me know when someone is out the door and then wiggles and wiggles and licks the person who ends up on the other side of the door.

She's an awesome dog. Love you Lily-girl.

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  1. Kristen says…
    02/04/2011

    Wow! Now I want a black lab!

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  2. Franziska says…
    02/04/2011

    Nice post. Perhaps you should do a mini album about your dogs. It's for sure not for your kids (as you wrote about their interest in the dogs) but for you and Chris.
    Picture 8 (you and Simon and Lily in your office) and picture 11 (Anna exploring your scrapbooking supplies) is really interesting for me. I have an almost 14 months old little one and she always wants to play with and explore my crafting supplies. Often it is a mess or too small for little ones or she "tastes" them or damages them in one or another way. How do you manage to "save" your supplies from little fingers and mouths and keep them "alive"? I always have to put the stuff away and lock the drawers and so forth or put them high so she can't reach them. Maybe in a future post you can tell us how you live with your solution for this situation. Maybe you just tell us "I have the same problems like you" but that would be nice to read, too. ;)

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    1. Ali says…
      02/04/2011

      Hi Franziska - my approach with my supplies has usually been to make nothing off-limits (except anything that could hurt them of course - sharp things most specifically). I found with Simon if I let him check stuff out and "play" with whatever he was attracted to at the moment it demystified the room for him and no battles ensued. I've got photos of him when he was Anna's age sitting on a chair in my office playing with small little brads - he's a different kid obviously ;).

      Anna likes to come in and stamp. She sits down on the floor, I give her a piece of cardstock, a little ink pad, and let her pick a couple of stamps. Within a few minutes she is on to something else :).

    2. Franziska says…
      02/16/2011

      thanks, Ali, unfortunately our little one is always interested in my drawers and materials - again and again and again :)

  3. Sarah M. says…
    02/04/2011

    We have a black lab named Molly (6) and a golden retriever (7) named Morgan. They are the best dogs--they let you know when someone is at the house while wagging their whole body! :) Like you, we have tons of photos with them partially in the photo because they are always on the move! Unless of course they are patiently waiting for a treat! My favorite pictures of them are where they are sitting or laying patiently by either side of my daughter's high chair just hoping for bits to fall!
    Thanks for sharing the story of Lily!

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  4. Krys72599 says…
    02/04/2011

    Our Lily's name was Marley. And Marley was a he. And Marley wasn't really ours.
    He belonged to our neighbors at the lake, 2 houses away and we spent every weekend with him for 7 or 8 years. He was an outside dog; they didn't keep him inside - he slept under their house (with Hooch, his constant companion until Hooch died about 4 years after we got the house).
    Then Marley sort of became "ours" every weekend - he visited us every day, sat/slept on the dock with us all summer, slept on our hearth all winter (every weekend), slept on our front steps when he stunk of lake water and we didn't want to let him in the house.
    We didn't see him for a couple of months one winter and we sort of really hoped they'd seen the light and were keeping him in during the bad weather.
    But he had died. They found him outside somewhere; we never heard the whole story.
    And Marley has left a hole in our hearts the size of one giant Black Lab, a hole that will never be filled.
    We miss you, Marley!!!

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  5. Angie Ulseth says…
    02/04/2011

    We have a Lily and a Sadie - both Golden Retrievers. They are also good "doorbells" and welcoming crew. Their best dog friend is my parents' black lab, Rudy. Dogs definitely add some spice to life!

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  6. kelly barton says…
    02/04/2011

    mmmmm....we are a lab family too. well not me - i have two airedales. ollie and delilah. they get very excited when the
    doorbell rings. my brothers have labs. shawn has yellow and casey
    has the black lab. his first was chauncey. when my oldest daughter was little we would hook up an old porcelain tub to him, plob cheri' in it and chauncey would take her on rides through the winter corn fields. labs are good dogs.

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  7. kerry says…
    02/04/2011

    I've always noticed Lily. Mostly because we have a female yellow lab that I could have written this post word for word about. (Well, except the hunting part, but she does want to go to grandparent camp I think!)

    Mine is right here where we are every morning. At my feet, under the computer desk, space heater pointed at her, and checking the news and blogs.

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  8. Andi Sexton says…
    02/04/2011

    Awesome post!!!! The photos of Lilly 'somewhere in the photo' are what life is all about...love it...

    The photos of Eastern Oregon crack me up.. that's where I'm at! On a ranch, near North Powder/Haines... off the Anthony Lakes Highway... headin' to Pendleton today!

    And yes, since I am on a ranch, we have LOTS of dogs..but no house dogs.. ours are 'the hired help'. But my daughter does a good job of making them kid sitters too! The closest we have to a house dog is Ernest, he is also older than our kids - kids are 12 & 13. He will be 16 this year and he has a special spot in my heart... my 'first' baby:)

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  9. Debbie says…
    02/04/2011

    awwww she's a sweety. i have a BL too. his name is Murphy. couldn't have asked for a better dog. he's my shadow. nearing 12, he's starting to show some age though. a few vet. visits ago, they detected a heart murmur. poor guy is starting to show signs from it. very hard 'knowing'. =( with one, he can make all my worries disappear. =)

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  10. the crafty cpa says…
    02/04/2011

    love love love this post. We have two golden retrievers (one a puppy we rescued at Christmas time). They are the joy of my life, my little golden princes.

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  11. Lynn W says…
    02/04/2011

    We have a dog named Lily too! She's a mix though - german shepherd, maybe a little lab, not really sure what she all she is. Started out as our son's dog but she was left behind with us when he took a job in Seattle. We love her and she's a great companion!

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  12. Sarah says…
    02/04/2011

    It's nice to meet you, Lily.

    When my twin brother was deployed to Afghanistan a few years ago, my parents become guardians of his yellow lab - Beamer. Once my brother was back home safely, my dad refused to give the dog back - which was OK since my brother didn't have the easiest lifestyle for a dog. Beamer is THE SWEETEST dog I've EVER KNOWN!

    Labs are GREAT!!!

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  13. Alexandra says…
    02/04/2011

    So happy that you wrote about Lily - I was wondering how she was doing. We are a two-dog family and in a smallish house with two kids it does get a little cramped and furry!! I do lots of vacuuming!! Our latest doggy addition is Hudson. He is a Labradoodle - he's two - he's more lab than poodle - he's black and so, so incredibly sweet - we call him a 'little man in a furry suit'.
    I can totally see why you love labs :)

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  14. christine says…
    02/04/2011

    As a pet portrait artist, this post touched my heart. I love when people celebrate their pets. May Lily live a long, happy life!

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  15. Amy says…
    02/04/2011

    I always call my parents house Camp for my dog too! I have a newfoundland and my parents live on a lake, so she loves going there! I wonder sometimes if she would prefer to live with them, but then she comes home and seems awfully happy to lay down in her favorite spots. Cool hunting pictures too, it's great that your dog is able to do what it was bred for on occasion!

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  16. Kim says…
    02/04/2011

    Yeah. I have been wondering why you haven't done a page about lily. You talk about her every once in awhile and I see her in pictures, but I have never seen a layout about her. Funny, because I was going to send you a tweet this weeking asking this question.

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  17. Kathy Passmore says…
    02/04/2011

    Ali,

    Thanks for sharing Lily's story with us. I have such a soft spot for labs myself, and just lost Zachary, my black lab on September 28, 2010. He was not quite 11, and just a great dog. I know I will adopt another one from a Labrador Rescue organization for sure at some point. My first lab was a mix of Rotweiler and lab, and her name was Daisy. She was the smartest dog ever, and could escape from any enclosure, even at the kennel. I hope to hear more stories about Lily in the future.

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  18. Cathy says…
    02/04/2011

    I love the story of Lily and your dogs...I see a mini album coming on. We got to see some glimpses of your new office - are you going to share your new space with us?

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  19. janie says…
    02/04/2011

    This makes me miss my yellow lab "Max"...I would love to get another one... maybe in the next year or two. Thanks for sharing!!

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  20. Lisa W. says…
    02/04/2011

    OMG I had no idea you had Lily either. I knew we HAD allot more in commone. I also have a choc. lab named Mia. She is a darling. I just DO NOT like the hair, oh boy do labs shed. YUCK> Kind of a clean freak so its a job every every day. UGH!!! She is actually me 16 yr. olds dog...she is in LOVE. She longs to be a veternarian and begged to get her this last summer. So she is only 7 months old and FULL I mean FULL of energy. Please oh please tell me they do settle down...lol. We also have a 8 yr. old dashound. She simply tolertates Mia "sometimes." I cannot wait to show my daughter this post...she will LOVE. Thanks for sharing and I will be looking forward to more Lilly posts:) Dogs really do make a home!!!

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    1. Kay Gregory-Clark says…
      02/04/2011

      Lisa, yes, they do settle down—but not for about 3 years! My Quest was rambunctious but eventually became the calmest (except when someone came to visit) dog and now Sadie, nearing 4, is finally becoming a little calmer too. I think she is a little more hyper, though.

  21. Spedusue says…
    02/04/2011

    Lily is just too cute and I have noticed her often in your pictures. You may not think that she has a major relationship with Simon and Anna but I bet she does. It is great that she is your "buddy" As a huge dog lover, my husband and I have had 3 so far. Right now we don't own a dog, but our kids each have 2 and I could not imagine loving them anymore if they lived at my house ( which they almost do). Enjoy Lily and thanks for sharing! By the way I have made 4 "dog" scrapbooks and they are definitely the favorites!

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  22. Christy Miller says…
    02/04/2011

    Love your story about Lily! I got my uncle's black lab when I was little because he moved. She was amazing! Then when I was about 8 we got a yellow lab, Rollie, and he lived to be 15 years old. My parents have another black lab now and my fiance and I have a golden retriever. I love labs and retrievers...best dogs ever! Enjoy your four legged friend! They really are man's best friend!

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  23. jan Davis from Canada says…
    02/04/2011

    Well hello Miss Lily :) We have a chocolate lab named Maximus (his friends call him Max) The BEST dog ever for kids!

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  24. Kay Gregory-Clark says…
    02/04/2011

    Ali, reading your post and the other comments makes me smile. My big black lab, Quest, died just a year ago, right after his 14th birthday. We had a few months earlier purchased a female, Sadie. Quest was—according to our vet and anyone who knew him—absolutely the best dog ever. I started a scrapbook about him that I need to work on. I already had many photos organized, but had to hunt through a lot of years and was disappointed to not find more. Sadie is so different I can't believe it—very high energy. Maybe Q was but it's so long ago and the contrast with him, an old dog, was amazing. She is such a hoot, making us laugh all the time. And she's SO attached to my husband, who primarily picked her for hunting but has hardly taken her out. Can't imagine life without our pets!

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  25. Lori says…
    02/04/2011

    I remember seeing your very first layouts, which included Lily, in CK Magazine YEARS ago. I've been watching her, and your family, grow every since.

    We are lab people too. Our yellow lab is named Cooper and he is my constant companion. Rescued from a shelter before I had a full-time job, before I was married, etc., Cooper has been at my side for years. He is always behind me, beside me, under my desk, tripping my feet, etc. He and my 2 boys co-exsist too. Not that he doesn't love the kids, he does. But, I know secretly he loves me best and would prefer to be the lone "baby" in the house. Back in those days he was still allowed to sleep in our bed and lounge on the couches. Now he only does that when he things we won't be home for awhile (too bad he leaves massive dog-divets in the middle of the bed and gives himself away every time!).

    We love our Cooper dog and feel very grateful he's a part of our family. So much so that he has his own scrapbook album too! :)

    Thanks for sharing and taking us down memory lane, Ali!

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