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Making pesto. Or attempting anyway. I tried on Saturday and I think the pine nuts I used were old - something just tasted off so I'll be trying again. The basil is growing great in my raised beds and I want to master this one.

Vacationing. I spent last week on Martha's Vineyard with a special group of friends (my first time there and I loved it). We switched up our annual get together and headed to the other coast this time (vs. Oregon) and it was a true vacation. I love these people and the absolute joy they bring to my life - especially through laughter. Man I haven't laughed that much in years.

Cuddling with the kids after being apart last week. They spent the week with Chris vacationing in the San Juan islands.

Planning. A camping adventure. Layouts. Fall schedules. Work-related stuff.

Cultivating relationships. With friends, kids, Chris, family and with someone kinda special.

Savoring the beginning.

Listening. To music really loud. And checking out new-to-me music and making playlists and feeling it through my whole body.

Repeating. Finding myself saying the same things over and over again such as "please go get in your bed" and "that behavior is not okay" and "take your plate to the kitchen" and "are you calm?" and "take a deep breath." I'm in one of those places where I hear what I'm saying and wonder if it's the right thing or should I be phrasing it differently, wondering how to get across what I really want to communicate to my kids.

Pruning and puttering out in the yard. My happy place. Cutting flowers and bringing them inside. Waiting on the bigger tomatoes.

Living the length and width. That's what it's all about.

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  1. Elise says…
    07/31/2012

    Woohoo, Ali. Here's to diving in, alright!!

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    1. Ali says…
      07/31/2012

      Amen sister!

  2. Denise says…
    07/31/2012

    I love following your story. This post just brightened my day. Wishing you all kinds of happiness. :)

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  3. Susan says…
    07/31/2012

    Yay! What a happy post!

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  4. Christine says…
    07/31/2012

    Welcome back. I have always wanted to go to Martha's Vinyard. Can't wait to see some pictures. I love the San Juans, I'm sure your kids had a great time. Thanks for setting us up with the guest bloggers. They were great and it was very thoughtful of you.
    So happy about your someone special. Sounds like things are looking "up" for you :).

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  5. briana says…
    07/31/2012

    Loved your post this morning! Thank you for sharing. I had to laugh because as I was reading it, MY little Anna came up and saw the picture. She asked me, "Mom, where am I in this picture?" We laughed hard when I told her it wasn't her in the pic, and it totally blew her mind when I told her that the little girl's name in the picture is Anna also. Happy day to you, Ali!

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  6. Kate Burroughs says…
    07/31/2012

    We love to make pesto. As far as my husband is concerned summer doesn't start until we have pesto. We grow our own basil too. Highly recommend refrigerating or freezing pine nuts between uses (we buy it from a food buying club in a 5 pound bag). We live half the year in Hawaii and often use macadamia nuts instead of the pine nuts. Just need to put them in with the garlic, as they need a longer processing time to get really smooth pesto at the end. We use about twice the normally recommended amount of basil in our pesto. Delicious!

    So happy to hear about someone kinda special. You so deserve to be happy!

    Aloha, Kate

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  7. Sara says…
    07/31/2012

    Love this post, Ali! I love your phrase "cultivating relationships" - I need to remember that instead of taking them for granted.

    May I ask what new music you're listening to? I love recommendations. Thanks so much!

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    1. Ali says…
      07/31/2012

      Hi Sara - right now I'm listening to Mat Kearney (not really new but new to me) and I'm also just going back through all the music I already own and making new playlists - revisiting songs I used to love :).

  8. Meghann says…
    07/31/2012

    Very excited for you... with everything that is happening in your life right now. Hope to see photos from Martha's Vineyard. My husband and I are thinking of going there to see the fall colors in October, but are still undecided!

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    1. Ali says…
      07/31/2012

      It was awesome!

  9. Steph says…
    07/31/2012

    Always love your posts - they make me smile! As I saw in so many of the replies above... very happy to hear you have someone kinda special! Thanks for always brightening my day!

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  10. Jaimee H. says…
    07/31/2012

    Welcome back! We missed you.
    Love the way you labeled your photos for the post today. I call my little guy my little peanut (which in turn means I am the big peanut). Can't wait to hear more about the "someone kinda special". :)

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  11. Amy P. says…
    07/31/2012

    Love your post and I enjoy reading your blog.

    I totally get the part with the kids, mine are 4 & 7 and we are trying so hard to get them to understand that they repect others and to also get across that they are very blessed to have "things" in their lives. (if I hear one more time "I wish I did not have a brother" or "I want this or that.." I think I will scream!) It can be so hard sometimes yet so wonderful!

    So happy to hear about "someone kinda special".

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  12. Kimberlee says…
    07/31/2012

    :D

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  13. Tere (Marie) says…
    07/31/2012

    love your post. love love that there is someone kind of special. Life is good.

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  14. pam says…
    07/31/2012

    girl, you sound so good!!!! (and lookin' mighty fine in all your pics too!) living the length and width...go ali!!!!! super happy for you xo

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  15. slmnontec says…
    07/31/2012

    As a parent of a 25 year old.my 2 cents worth: Persevere with calm words over and over. It eventually "takes" and they become responsible.

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  16. Quinna says…
    07/31/2012

    Basil....process in blender with as little water as possible...freeze flat in ziplock bag... Break off pieces all winter long for soups etc. yummy!

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  17. amy says…
    07/31/2012

    Watch out for those pine nuts-they may have tasted "off" because they are grown and shipped from China, which grows a different kind of pine nut than stateside. My husband got "pine mouth" from a pesto I made with those kind of pine nuts, and he had an alkaline taste in his mouth for weeks. Anyway, they can go rancid or you could just have a rxn to them. Glad you had fun in MV, I love that place, too. Very special. Thanks again for all you inspiration and I look forward to more in the fall.

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  18. Carmen Pauls Orthner says…
    07/31/2012

    It made my heart happy to hear about your joy-filled, truly restful vacation, your wise wording about "cultivating" relationships, and the hint about the special person in your life. I had noticed the "date night" photo in your Project Life, and was hoping that meant good things were happening for you. :) "Up", indeed. :)

    Carmen.

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  19. Paula says…
    07/31/2012

    Hurray for everything in today's post!

    Wishing you happiness and peace - someone kinda special is very lucky and blessed to have someone as special as you!

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  20. Liz Sawyer says…
    07/31/2012

    I made pesto with asparagus the other day... barely could even tell it was there! A great way to add in some added vitamins into it!

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  21. Leanne in CA says…
    07/31/2012

    Awesome and ditto to the comments above! Glad to hear you are well. Take care and have a fabulous week!!

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  22. Nita says…
    07/31/2012

    Love this post. It made me smile.

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  23. Liz says…
    07/31/2012

    Happy for you Ali... thanks for sharing! x

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  24. Ilona says…
    07/31/2012

    :-) Happy for you!!

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  25. Catherine says…
    07/31/2012

    All I can say is, you go girl.

    Email me if you want some playlist ideas-I'm always keeping an ear out for awesome music and could make you one.

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