Documenting Simon.

Skateboarding
Learning a new skill (thanks Grandpa Al for the fun skateboard).

Balancing

Balancing at the park (with Harry Potter wand in hand).

Jump

Jumping in & swimming.

Sprinkler

Running through the sprinkler and playing with the neighbor kids.

Simon

Being silly (lots and lots of that happening around here).

Checking
Checking stuff out.

You may have noticed that the long sleeves & pants are back again. When I posted about taking all the long sleeved shirts out of his closet for the summer Roberta made the following comment:

Kids know
what they like just like we do...perhaps Simon likes the "security"
long sleeves gives him...it's a tactile thing...feels like a big hug.
If you're worried about him being "hot"...look at all the people in the
world living in the desert...all wear long blk/white sleeves to protect
their skin. As mothers we try to protect our children...but being a
mother of a LD child whom we used to call "The Taz" because he would
throw terrible fits...trust me...when you let go and let me...allow
them to be who they are...everyone is happier:}

She made some points I hadn't considered (especially about people in desert climates who long sleeves to protect their skin) and it actually made me adjust my outlook on the situation. Thanks Roberta for adding your comments. We are all feeling a little happier around here...but we did draw the line when he wanted to wear his winter/ski coat outside today when it was 90+ degrees.

Hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend. Giveaways will be posted tomorrow morning.

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  1. Shelly Kettell says…
    07/04/2009

    Life is so enjoyable! Thanks for sharing!

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  2. Nicky from Canada says…
    07/05/2009

    We go thru the same thing every year with Brody - the security of the long sleeve shirts and they are definitely more sensitive - we are currently looking for some long sleeve swim shirts - because even with swimming - he want's a shirt!! (so far we can only find short sleeves - but he is managing just fine with those)

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  3. Sarah Pendergrast says…
    07/06/2009

    Ali, thanks so much for posting this. I'm having similar issue with my five year old ASD son. He managed to get his hands on a long sleeve Lightning McQueen shir to wear to the zoo yesterday, and I could not pry it off his hot little body no matter how hard I tried. I guess it's not such a big deal. I may try to at replace his sweaters he insists on wearing with lighter versions, as I really can't seem to convince him he doesn't need a sweater when it's hot! Gotta love perspective.

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  4. Helen Tilbury says…
    07/08/2009

    My young son has dyspraxia & also loves long sleeves. As he's my 3rd child I've come to realise that it's not worth sweating the small stuff - as long as he's happy & not in his anorak in the middle of summer - I'm happy ;-D I think it's a great thing learning to "let go" within reason, and let our kids choose what they are comfortable in. It's hard but it gets easier...

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